tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1279878132315954446.post6799791982474327154..comments2023-06-06T05:12:29.824-04:00Comments on The Adventures of Karen: Dealing with PeopleKarenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11171063087193671797noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1279878132315954446.post-12650461336517552932010-10-21T22:15:22.069-04:002010-10-21T22:15:22.069-04:00From my point of view, I would suggest a book deal...From my point of view, I would suggest a book dealing with establishing boundaries. Unfortunately, I don't have a recommendation for you. :)Barb the Evil Geniushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04635449477605703171noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1279878132315954446.post-31867055985472611342010-10-21T18:04:30.472-04:002010-10-21T18:04:30.472-04:00Well......I think I am finding there IS a balance ...Well......I think I am finding there IS a balance of still socializing but perhaps not as much with all the kiddos. Revel in your kiddos. That is what I have pretty much decided to do as sometimes the energy that is vested in weirdness, detracts from what I am first given to do with my family. Now a days I try to more carefully plan our outings. We have been perhaps socializing too much. It was fun while it lasted but my house, children and family pay the price. <br /><br />What is that saying? What others think of you is none of your business? I am not sure that is it but there are times when I wonder what goes through other people's heads and it can hurt but on the other hand, I know better since I am pretty much me and they are not........sooooo.......I care less about it. Forgive. Love them even more perhaps with compassion for their weaknesses and continue to be wonderful you too.Bikermomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07183756903027223916noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1279878132315954446.post-91909382153986908892010-10-21T09:39:41.926-04:002010-10-21T09:39:41.926-04:00but being a recluse is so lonely! You handled it ...but being a recluse is so lonely! You handled it well Karen so don't sweat it okay. Your letter was unemotional and to the point. The other person is a hothead I think and sometimes a hothead regrets their out bursts in anger. So trust in yourself. Your letter didn't attack, so you are good. Let it go for now.... and don't become a recluse because I enjoy hanging out with you! <br /><br />Your friend that sweats these things also!Melindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07782048750618350157noreply@blogger.com